Questions about the people you're with
Who's most likely to, who'd survive longest, who'd call first. Warm rather than cutting.
- If this group planned a trip, who is actually booking the tickets, and who shows up at the airport with no idea where you're going?
- Always be the one hosting, or always be the one turning up at someone else's place?
- Never have I ever argued with friends for twenty minutes about where to eat and then eaten nothing.
- Give every single person here a specific compliment. You have thirty seconds. Go.
- Who here will look exactly the same in twenty years? Who's going to age into an absolute legend?
- Show this group your full calendar for the month, or your weekly screen time report?
- Never have I ever pretended to be busy to get out of a friend's plans.
- Direct a group photo. Everyone has to hold whatever pose you assign them.
- If this group started a band tomorrow, what's the band name and who's on drums?
- One three-hour phone call a month with your closest friend, or unlimited texts but you never hear their voice again?
- Never have I ever laughed at a joke I did not understand at all.
- Read the last message you sent out loud, in the most dramatic voice you can manage.
- Who here gives the most useful advice? Give an example of something they actually said.
- Five friends who'd drop everything for you, or fifty who'd definitely show up to your party?
- Never have I ever told a friend I loved a gift I actually hated.
- Summarize the last week of your busiest group chat in fifteen seconds.
- What's something you borrowed from a friend and quietly never gave back?
- Your best friend as your boss, or your best friend as your roommate?
- Never have I ever faked remembering someone's name for an entire conversation.
- High five everyone in the room, and say one thing you like about each person as you do it.
- If you had to cook one dinner for everyone in this room tonight, what are you making?
- Always be the friend handing out the advice, or always the one asking for it?
- Never have I ever traveled somewhere with a friend I'd never traveled with before and survived it.
- Do an impression of someone in this room without saying their name. Everyone else guesses who.
- What's the pose you always default to in photos, and when did you start doing it?
- Friends who tell you the blunt truth every time, or friends who always soften it for you?
- Never have I ever made everyone watch a movie I loved that they clearly did not.
- Invent a chant for this group, then get everyone doing it with you.
- Who here did you completely misjudge when you first met? What did you think back then?
- A friend who is always forty minutes late, or one who cancels last minute half the time?