Icebreaker

Questions about the people you're with

Who's most likely to, who'd survive longest, who'd call first. Warm rather than cutting.

  1. If this group planned a trip, who is actually booking the tickets, and who shows up at the airport with no idea where you're going?
  2. Always be the one hosting, or always be the one turning up at someone else's place?
  3. Never have I ever argued with friends for twenty minutes about where to eat and then eaten nothing.
  4. Give every single person here a specific compliment. You have thirty seconds. Go.
  5. Who here will look exactly the same in twenty years? Who's going to age into an absolute legend?
  6. Show this group your full calendar for the month, or your weekly screen time report?
  7. Never have I ever pretended to be busy to get out of a friend's plans.
  8. Direct a group photo. Everyone has to hold whatever pose you assign them.
  9. If this group started a band tomorrow, what's the band name and who's on drums?
  10. One three-hour phone call a month with your closest friend, or unlimited texts but you never hear their voice again?
  11. Never have I ever laughed at a joke I did not understand at all.
  12. Read the last message you sent out loud, in the most dramatic voice you can manage.
  13. Who here gives the most useful advice? Give an example of something they actually said.
  14. Five friends who'd drop everything for you, or fifty who'd definitely show up to your party?
  15. Never have I ever told a friend I loved a gift I actually hated.
  16. Summarize the last week of your busiest group chat in fifteen seconds.
  17. What's something you borrowed from a friend and quietly never gave back?
  18. Your best friend as your boss, or your best friend as your roommate?
  19. Never have I ever faked remembering someone's name for an entire conversation.
  20. High five everyone in the room, and say one thing you like about each person as you do it.
  21. If you had to cook one dinner for everyone in this room tonight, what are you making?
  22. Always be the friend handing out the advice, or always the one asking for it?
  23. Never have I ever traveled somewhere with a friend I'd never traveled with before and survived it.
  24. Do an impression of someone in this room without saying their name. Everyone else guesses who.
  25. What's the pose you always default to in photos, and when did you start doing it?
  26. Friends who tell you the blunt truth every time, or friends who always soften it for you?
  27. Never have I ever made everyone watch a movie I loved that they clearly did not.
  28. Invent a chant for this group, then get everyone doing it with you.
  29. Who here did you completely misjudge when you first met? What did you think back then?
  30. A friend who is always forty minutes late, or one who cancels last minute half the time?